Which lubricant should I use?

Whether you’re experiencing vaginal dryness, looking for extra comfort during intimacy, or simply want to enhance natural lubrication, choosing the right lubricant can make a real difference.

Vaginal dryness is more common than many women realise. In fact, around 50% of postmenopausal women experience vaginal dryness, discomfort or pain during sex due to declining oestrogen levels. Hormonal changes during perimenopause and menopause can affect natural lubrication, elasticity and comfort, making intimacy feel different than it once did.

The good news? There isn’t one “best” lubricant... there’s simply the best lubricant for your needs.

At YES, all of our lubricants are designed to work in harmony with intimate tissues. They’re free from glycerine, hormones, fragrances and unnecessary additives, and are made with carefully selected ingredients that support comfort without compromising vaginal health. 

Why use a lubricant?

Many women assume lubricants are only for vaginal dryness, but they can benefit anyone.

A lubricant can help:

• Reduce friction and discomfort
• Enhance comfort and pleasure during intimacy
• Support intimacy during perimenopause and menopause
• Make sex toys and dilator use more comfortable
• Help protect delicate vaginal tissues from irritation
• Provide extra confidence when natural lubrication varies

Research has shown that around 70% of women report greater comfort and sexual satisfaction when using a lubricant, making them a simple way to support comfort, confidence and pleasure during intimacy.

How to choose the right lubricant

The best lubricant for you depends on how and when you plan to use it.

Choose YES WB if you want…

A natural-feeling, versatile lubricant for everyday intimacy

YES WB is our water-based lubricant, formulated to match the healthy vaginal pH and mimic the body’s natural moisture. 

It’s ideal if you’re looking for:

✓ A natural-feeling glide

✓ Relief from dryness and discomfort

✓ Condom compatibility

✓ Compatibility with sex toys

✓ A lightweight, non-sticky texture

✓ A lubricant that feels similar to natural lubrication

The aloe vera-rich formula helps hydrate intimate tissues while reducing friction for greater comfort.

Best for: Everyday intimacy, sensitive tissues, condom use, toy use, and women experiencing mild to moderate dryness.

Choose YES OB if you want…

A longer-lasting, plant oil-based lubricant

YES OB is made with organic plant oils and butters, creating a richer texture that lasts longer than many water-based lubricants. 

Women often choose YES OB when they want:

✓ Longer-lasting lubrication

✓ Comfort during extended intimacy

✓ A natural alternative to silicone lubricants

✓ A lubricant that can double as a massage oil

✓ Extra nourishment for delicate skin

The blend of organic oils and shea butter creates a smooth, cushioning glide while helping to condition the skin.

Best for: Longer sessions, massage, water play, and women looking for a richer lubricant experience.

Important: Because YES OB is oil-based, it should not be used with latex condoms.

Choose YES COCO if you want…

Our most nourishing and luxurious lubricant

YES COCO combines organic coconut oil and jojoba oil to create an exceptionally smooth, conditioning lubricant. 

Women love YES COCO for:

✓ Long-lasting comfort

✓ Nourishing dry vulval and vaginal tissues

✓ A silky, luxurious feel

✓ Extended intimacy

✓ Convenient applicators for targeted use

The organic coconut and jojoba oils help soothe and condition intimate skin while providing a long-lasting glide.

Best for: Women experiencing dryness, those who prefer oil-based lubrication, and anyone looking for a rich, luxurious lubricant.

Important: Like other oil-based lubricants, YES COCO should not be used with latex condoms.

Can I use YES lubricants with condoms?

YES WB: Yes. Compatible with latex condoms.

YES OB and YES COCO: No. Oil-based lubricants can weaken latex condoms and reduce their effectiveness.

If you’re using condoms, YES WB is the best choice.

Can I use YES lubricants with sex toys?

YES WB is compatible with most sex toys and is generally the safest choice for toy use.

If you’re using YES OB or YES COCO, always check the manufacturer’s guidance for your specific toy material before use.

What’s the difference between water-based and oil-based lubricants?

What should I look for in a lubricant?

Not all lubricants are created equal.

When choosing a lubricant, look for:

✓ A lubricant that is pH matched to the vagina (typically pH 3.8–4.5)

✓ Products that are glycerine-free

✓ Fragrance-free and flavour-free formulations

✓ Ingredients that support sensitive tissues

✓ Products designed specifically for intimate use

Avoid products containing unnecessary fragrances, flavours, warming agents or harsh ingredients, as these may irritate sensitive tissues.

At YES, all lubricants are designed to work in harmony with intimate tissues and are free from glycerine, hormones, fragrances and unnecessary additives. 

When is a lubricant not enough?

If you’re regularly experiencing vaginal dryness, irritation, itching, burning, or discomfort, a lubricant may help during intimacy but may not address the underlying dryness itself.

In these situations, a vaginal moisturiser such as YES VM may be more appropriate, as it’s specifically designed to replenish moisture and provide longer-lasting hydration between intimate moments. 

Finding the lubricant that’s right for you

The best lubricant is the one that suits your body, your lifestyle and your needs.

Whether you’re looking for the natural-feeling hydration of YES WB, the long-lasting glide of YES OB, or the nourishing comfort of YES COCO, every YES lubricant is designed with one goal in mind: helping women feel more comfortable, confident and connected to their bodies.

Because intimacy isn’t about enhancement. It’s about feeling like yourself again.